It is amazing that a seemingly simple incident when as a child of about four can influence the rest of your life. The way I felt was the way I wanted others to feel.
And the story is about a biscuit. Yes a biscuit.
The most important biscuit in the world - and I don't even remember what it was.
But from this I learned the strength of women the respect of men, how to be specific and how good I felt.
I had a matriarchal grandma who let me choose.
The incident has coloured the rest of my life in a wonderful way and helped those who I have shared it with.
That is just one of the things to write and others even further back.
And yes it is the foundation of having children who did their jobs happily and owned it.
And so simple.
26/8/12 Julie